19 Aug
I originally ran this post over two years ago. Stay tuned for an update next week. What’s carfree life like with a four-year-old? You may be surprised. . . .
I’ve managed to go my whole adult life without owning a car. When I was pregnant, I wondered if I’d finally succumb to automobile ownership, but I’ve found I get along just fine. In the first few weeks of parenthood, I plopped my daughter into a sling and stepped out the door.
At three months, she took her very first stroller ride, and at almost two and a half years she still takes a spin in it almost every single day. I have found the stroller indispensible for a car-free lifestyle–jaunts around town are entertaining for the baby, and the basket provides some storage space for books or groceries we pick up along the way. We enjoy what I like to think of as a European way of life: Instead of driving to the store every week or every other week and filling up an entire cart full of groceries, I stop by every few days and pick up the items I need by foot.
My husband does have a car, but I have only driven it once, and that was to take him to the emergency room (long story). He does commute to work by car, and I have to admit that I rely on his chauffeur services to run to the store for particularly heavy or unwieldy items. Yes, I am grateful that I don’t need to walk down the streets with a 24-pack of Seventh Generation toilet paper or a ten-pound bag of flour!
In many ways I’ve had to revolve my life around not driving. It’s no coincidence that we live within walking distance of shops, libraries, restaurants, and coffee shops. It can definitely be inconvenient to rely on walking or bus-riding, especially with a fussy baby. A few times a year the weather is bad enough to keep me stuck indoors all day long. Also, my hour-long bus commute to work would take a mere twenty minutes by car. This may seem like a waste of time, but I use the bus ride to read or grade papers.
Despite the inconveniences and drawbacks, I love remaining car-free. I hate driving and am thrilled to live a life that doesn’t require getting behind the wheel. We save thousands of dollars by not buying a second car, not to mention all the time and money we save on gas and maintenance. My husband’s commute by car is terrible for the environment, and I rely on the bus to get to work two to four times a week, so we can’t claim to be carbon-neutral. However, we are able to cut back on our combined carbon emissions by running most household errands on foot. On those bad days when I’m standing in the rain with my toddler in one arm and a bag of groceries in the other, at least I have the solace of knowing I’m doing the planet a small favor!
5 Responses for "Carfree Living with Baby: The Early Years"
Yay for being carfree with a baby! And don’t forget that kids scream it carseats too, they just do it in the relative privacy of a car
I laugh. I too live car free with an 18month old. Today I did tote home that 10 lb bag of flour (and about 6 bags of groceries and a jumbo watermelon) in my stroller. Monkey slept the entire time. No transitions for him, just rolling. We are a totally car free family and chose where we live (Suburban Chicago) because it would work for us.
We chose to live in NYC (rather than move out to the burbs) because we can live car free here. To schlep the heavy stuff, we use a “granny” cart which are ubiquitous around Brooklyn for people of all ages or plop it under the stroller. For the occasional trip to Home Depot or some such place, we use a taxi or rent a zipcar. It’s not cheap, but way cheaper than car insurance, maintenance, gas, and the inevitible parking tickets. I find our life much easier without a car, even with a toddler.
I’m so happy to see there are other car-free mothers out there! And Leigh, how big is your stroller?! A 10-lb bag of flour, six bags of groceries, a jumbo watermelon, and a kid? Seems like you’d need a wheelbarrow!
I wish I could be car-free, but I live in the burbs and it’s just not feasible. I do try to walk whenever I can, and most weekend mornings can find me with my two kids (almost 2 and almost 4) going for a long walk to run some errand or just get me a cup of coffee! Yesterday we walked to Kmart and bought 2 giant planters, a cubic foot of dirt, and a collection of herbs to give to the two grandmas to thank them for helping out with childcare this summer. My older one rode his bike so I could use the backseat of the stroller for carrying items!
Another tip — see what you can get via Amazon / your local grocery store to deliver. For example, Amazon sells 7th gen diapers at the cheapest price I can find, and they deliver for free if you sign up for the subscription service, which you can cancel at any time…
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