24 Aug
On Thursday I re-ran my vintage post about a car-free living with a baby. So what’s life like over two years later?
I never thought I’d be one of those parents wheeling a four-year-old around in a stroller. In fact, I scoffed at parents who didn’t make their kids walk, instead opting to push them all over town like little princes and princesses. Why, I practically joined the track team by the age of two! My nephews escorted my father for three-mile hikes when they were still in diapers!

Fast forward to 2010. My daughter is four and a half and can’t walk more than half a block at a snail’s pace before stopping dead in her tracks and begging to be carried. I’ve tried leaving the stroller behind on errands, only to resort to carrying her thirty-pound body hither and yon. She simply won’t walk—she’ll stand in place, sit on the sidewalk, and moan and groan.
For now, I am going to continue using the stroller. I really couldn’t get anything done without it. (As a side note, the fact that I’ve walked this stroller at least a mile a day for the last 4.5 years is a great endorsement for the Maclaren Triumph!) If I had a car, it might be different, but until Audrey can walk at least two miles without complaint, I guess I’ll have to resign myself to being one of “those” parents. I’m just hoping I don’t have to wheel her to into kindergarten next year. . . .
Do any of you have “advanced stroller riders”? Or do you have any tips for making a reluctant walker get moving?
5 Responses for "Still Car-free after All These Years: Life with an Advanced Stroller Rider"
Audrey looks so grown up! She looks a lot like Andy in that picture. Hope I get to see you both soon!
I have two sons, one who turns 5 in two days, and yes, he still rides in a stroller. We have a 2006 Mountain Buggy urban double and a First Years Ignite, which is an umbrella stroller that goes to 50lbs.. We live in a very walkable location (grocery store, drugstore, salons, restaurants, library, doctor, dentist, pretty much everything we need to live is within 2 miles). My son gets tired walking too and he still fits in both strollers for height and weight requirements, so we will allow him to ride as long as we need to. If we have the umbrella stroller, we just stick our little one in our soft structured carrier and push the big guy!
I think it really matters that you get a good, quality stroller if you think you will have an advanced stroller rider for any reason. We have had numerous strollers, both high and low end, and it’s worth it to pay a few extra dollars for the bells and whistles if it is a form of transportation for you and your children.
My son turned 4 in June and still enjoys riding in his stroller (particularly since he can get in and strap himself in now without our help). I’ve been trying to “wean” him from the stroller and we often do walk the five blocks to our local co-op market and Trader Joe’s. He does beg to be carried but usually I can put him off by saying I’ll pick him up when we get to the corner… and then if he doesn’t ask again I conveniently “forget” to pick him up.
(He’s 36 pounds so I really can’t manage carrying him for more than a block or two anymore.)
I will say, it does take forever to walk those five blocks sometimes, so occasionally I will suggest the stroller so the trip can go faster and the purchases can go in the basket.
When we went to visit my family on the East Coast this summer, I didn’t bring the stroller and never missed it, though we also didn’t really go anywhere during our visit; last year, when I took him to England and walked around a LOT, the stroller was invaluable (of course, back then, he still napped most days so I could continue to sightsee while he slept in the stroller).
We’re happy Maclaren Triumph owners too! Our 4yo doesn’t ride any more, but our 1 year old gets a lot of use out of it. With the arrival of a baby last year we officially put an end to our older daughters stroller-riding days. She does fine walking most of the time, and on longer trips we have the option to bike. We’ve also sometimes been saved by having her ride a scooter which is a little less frustrating. We wrote a post about it about 6 months ago (which now seems sweetly dated: http://carfreecambridge.com/2010/02/how-to-raise-a-walker/).
But I will also say that when you are living carfree or car-light I think you are much more likely to need extended stroller use and I can’t see anything wrong with it. Kids who are carfree get plenty of exercise and if it helps you make it through the day, then it’s well worth it! (And if you are like me it’s just one of hundreds of things I vowed never to do as a parent!)
I am searching for some of your posts about a “reluctant” spouse to link to for a post, and I came across this one. It made me laugh.
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