16 Aug
I must have heard this toy organization tip a hundred times. We even wrote about it in our book, The Eco-nomical Baby Guide. To keep toys fresh and interesting for your child, simply box up a nice selection of games, books, and dolls and forget about it for a month or two. When the box reappears, your child will delight in all the “new” stuff, and you’ll rotate out some other playthings.
Not really Audrey’s room. She was asleep while I posted this and I couldn’t go in to snap a picture!
This always sounded like a great idea—I just never did it. Recently, however, I decided to simplify my daughter’s room. I always thought we had fewer toys than average, yet somehow keeping her room organized had become a major ordeal. Her room was a mess. Now, I’m lucky enough to have a lot of storage space in my partially finished attic, and I cleared out an entire closet. I then stashed all of these toys and books away.
All of her toy kitchen supplies, toy food, baby books, vintage Little People, and tiny little dolls with rubber clothes are in there. Her room looks positively Spartan, with its piles of library books, a dresser drawer of art supplies, and a few beloved dolls.
But the crazy thing is this: I did this a couple weeks ago, and my daughter has not noticed! I deliberately moved them into this closet to make them accessible to her, thinking she could take one thing down to play with, but she has yet to ask for any of it.
Audrey’s impressive collection of wooden food is no longer strewn throughout the entire house.
I want my daughter to care about her possessions and use them—but I also understand that if she has too much, none of it is valuable to her. (I’d like to note that I have bought her only a few toys in her life. She acquires 98% of her things through hand-me-downs and gifts.) How do you deal with the piles or toys threatening to overtake your child’s room? Have you tried the toy rotation system? What has worked—or not—for you?
7 Responses for "Organizing (a.k.a, hiding) Your Child’s Toys"
I do find that if I put my son’s toys where he can’t see them (even if it’s in a bin at floor level), he generally won’t play with them. He’s rarely asked about a toy I’ve stashed away. Our big issue is toy cars (he has 100+ of them, all sizes), and I have rotated them out on occasion (sometimes with his help; I say “which cars are going on vacation this week?” and put them in a box labeled Vacation). Mostly, I try to go through his toy collection with him every couple of months and have him pick out the ones he doesn’t want anymore to take to Goodwill (where the vast majority of them came from in the first place). We just took a paper grocery bag full of assorted toys to Goodwill last weekend (and came back home with two small cars… sigh).
I currently have FOUR bins that I rotate out weekly for my 12-month-old. His grandma has a thrift store toy buying addiction
I try to keep my two toddler’s toys to a minimum. I definitely do toy rotation and often end up getting rid of half of the bin that I bring out from the garage to rotate. Recently we got a nice train table from Craigslist which has two large drawers underneath. The stuff they play with daily are on top and I have stored the majority of the other toys in the drawers. The drawers and their contents are mostly untouched, so I guess I’ll be making another trip to Goodwill. You can tell which toys are really important to your kids and that amount is usually about 5-10% of the toys you actually own. Once I figured this out purging was easy.
Without any attic, basement or even garage, we don’t have any place to store stuff. So we purge. My kids are used to it and they love the serenity it brings to their rooms. I started out like Jaime and when they were young enough, I did it for them, but I also tried to include them as much as possible to avoid trauma. I’m not sure if it’s just my kids or what, but they have never seemed to mind giving things away. They have been through it enough times that they willingly give up toys they rarely play with now and often suggest it’s time for a purge before I do. It seems as they get older, toys are not as exciting as board games, computers, etc. and there is no shortage of new things as Christmas and birthdays roll around.
I finished reading Simplicity Parenting (http://www.librarything.com/work/3672587/book/74952076) recently and he talks about exactly this. You move out 70 or even 90% of your children’s toys into a “toy library” and the kids barely notice. Instead of pining for the lost toys, they’re happier for the breathing space.
We just did a major revamp on our living room. In the process we set up a corner for our 16mo daughter. She has a rocker and a set of shelves for her books and toys. We also did a major toy purge. We packed away or gave away the things she had outgrown and trimmed down the age-appropriate toys to a maneagable level. Now she’s happier for having more space and Mama is happier that there is less fodder for toddler wrecking.
I have done this for a long time, and the sad thing is, we still always have too many toys out. We really have way too many toys. But, anyway, I have 3 or 4 different rotations, and I try to switch them out every 2 months or so. I have some of each kind of toy (vehicle, play food, stacking, slot, soft toys, musical toys) in each rotation. It’s like Christmas when I get out the next rotation. After 2 months, some toys from the old rotation are being completely neglected, so it’s nice to see them delight in them again when their turn comes up.
We just moved from a 700 square foot apartment, where I (foolishly) believed we didn’t have that many toys for our two kids. I WAS KIDDING MYSELF. I cannot believe how many freaking boxes of toys I am unpacking- it is unreal. Truly. Like Angie suggested, I could easily get rid of 70% of their toys and they would still have enough to play with– and room to actually play with them!
I have found that I get more attached to some toys than they do, because they are nice wood toys that I think are cool. So I hold onto them, even though my kids never play with them. Laaame.
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