4 Oct
In my 2008 post, “What’s in your diaper bag?” I questioned the need to lug around a gigantic tote stashed with diapers and burp rags. Even when Audrey was small, I got by just fine without a diaper bag at all!
I may not have mentioned that my husband did carry around a diaper bag. In fact, now that my daughter has started kindergarten, it is only now being retired. We received a cheap plastic diaper bag for free at the hospital where Audrey was born. I believe it came with a complimentary canister of Similac formula. When Audrey started daycare at eight months, my husband saw no need to buy something fancy like a Diaper Dude diaper bag ($55). Nor did he seem drawn to the organic cotton fabrics on the Amy Butler diaper bags ($250) that are all the rage in some circles. So he stuck with the hospital freebie.
Diaper Dude Diaper Bag
Over the years, he’s taken that bag (and Audrey) to her wonderful daycare provider. At first we needed it to transport bottles of expressed breast milk and bundles of cloth diapers. Later we filled it with a change of clothes and shoes, a swim suit, and a snack for the ride home. Now it’s literally falling apart. The white plastic lining is torn, the pockets have ripped. It’s too battered to donate to a thrift store.
I’ll miss this beat-up little bag, even though I never carried it around myself. I guess I’ll have to get by on the memories!
7 Responses for "Retiring the Diaper Bag"
perhaps the possibility of receiving another freebie from the hospital will motivate you to have a second child!
Good thinking, Lindsay. It’s like having a child has already paid for itself!
I have to say, I can’t imagine not carrying a diaper bag in some form. I am about to have my second child, and my son is potty training so I do not really carry a diaper bag anymore but I do need an extra set of clothes for him “just in case”. When the baby gets here, adding cloth diapers, wipes, blankets for my winter baby, extra clothes for both, etc. will require a much larger bag. I bought a Vera Bradley diaper bag on clearance and love it, and will use it beyond the baby years I’m sure. And it’s big enough to carry all that stuff. I’m sure you don’t NEED a “diaper bag” but I find it easier to use something that is designed to be easily cleaned and has pockets for things like snacks and sippy cups.
We use a backpack. We had an actual diaper bag backpack at first, but then I switched to one that I already owned because it was bigger. The slot in the back for the laptop holds the changing pad, while the bigger section is used for diapers, wet bag and changes of clothes. The front section is used food, cups and other odds and ends. It’s a great hands free way to carry my stuff around and both my husband and I can use it.
Jennifer, I never carried around an extra outfit and never needed one. I think I liked feeling like I wasn’t encumbered by all this baby-related stuff. It was freeing thinking I could walk out of the door with hardly anything.
Jenn J–I have an upcoming post on diaper bag alternatives. So stay tuned!
I agree it would be nice to be unencumbered, but I guess I don’t mind because two toddlers is already pretty encumbering, so what’s one more thing? Plus I would feel terrible if my one of them had an accident a poopy diaper or got sick and I didn’t have any means to make them more comfortable. Also I often rely heavily on snacks and water while I’m in places like waiting rooms or the post office with both of them.
I love this post because we just retired the diaper bag this week! It was actually our second bag.
I carried the previous incarnation of the Lands’ End Do-it-all Diaper Bag (http://www.landsend.com/pp/DoitallDiaperBag~213834_-1.html) for at least the first two years and can’t say enough good things about it. It went everywhere with us, even across the country and back. It was exceptionally well-designed, with basic accessories like a changing pad and room for everything else we needed.
At some point as she got older I rotated in a smaller messenger bag (Old Navy?); that’s the bag that went off to preschool with her.
And that’s the bag that we finally retired this week. Now that’s she’s potty-trained, I can fit everything she needs into a cute little bag she can carry herself. She’s quite proud.
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