Here’s something disposable diaper-using parents may not understand: I truly enjoyed cloth diapering my daughter. I didn’t just put up with it because I wanted to save money. Nor was I slaving over those diapers as a sacrifice for Mother Earth. Before my daughter was born, I pored over websites on the Internet, reading all about prefolds and diaper covers and laundering techniques. Once I got my diapers, I admired their softness and cuteness; I couldn’t wait to try them out. I even took pleasure in laundry days–ah, the anticipation of waiting for a nice, fresh batch of diapers to emerge from the dryer!
Yes, I took a picture of myself holding a cloth diaper
Scouring consignment shops for my preferred brand of diaper covers became my new focus in life. Discovering a new cloth diapering tip (Sunlight removes stains! You can wash diapers in cold water!) would send me into a frenzy of delight. I know what some of you are thinking: this lady has no life. I am exaggerating only slightly when I say that cloth diapering gives me a sense of accomplishment one must feel upon ascending Mt. Everest, winning an Olympic gold medal, or discovering a cure for diaper rash.
Starting the Green Baby Guide added a whole new layer to the thrill of cloth diapering: now I could impart my cloth diapering insights to others. Some might have no interest in the practice whatsoever. This is hard for me to understand, but I hear it’s true. After all, only ten percent of the population uses cloth. Others eschew disposables out of economic necessity or perhaps out of obligation to the planet. And then there are those like me . . . those who can write three whole paragraphs on What Cloth Diapering Means to Me. Those who don’t just tolerate cloth diapers, but actively like them. A lot.
#1 One set lasts throughout baby’s diapering. Pocket diapers like bumGenius and Happy Heiny’s have adjustable snaps that make it possible to use the same diaper for any baby from eight to thirty five pounds. While prefolds are far cheaper overall, you may have to buy different sizes as baby grows whereas with a few dozen pocket diapers, you’re set!
#2 They’re easier to put on than prefolds—especially at three in the morning when you’re diapering your colicky baby and haven’t had more than three consecutive hours of sleep for days on end. All you need to do is snap or Velcro them into place and you’re set to go.
#3 Once they’re stuffed, you’re set. After you launder pocket diapers, the inserts just need to be gently tucked into the diapers. That’s it! Prefolds have to be folded and then arranged a bit in the cover before they’re on. It may be just a ten second difference but when you have a squirmy toddler like mine, ten seconds counts!
#4 They’re cuter—hands down. Even skeptics can’t help but gasp with admiration when they see Roscoe in his cow-print Happy Heiny’s. For friends and family who are a bit critical of cloth, seeing your baby’s tush in adorable cloth diapers may just win them over.
#5 Less bulk. Pocket diapers fit more like disposables, which means that your child will fit in their clothes more easily. I would presume that they’re also more comfortable for baby since they allow more movement and are less binding.
If you did, we want to hear from you! We are often amazed by the ingenuity and commitment of our readers and use your stories to share with other new parents. Many families are overwhelmed by the idea of cloth diapering one child, let alone two or three. If you’ve managed to use cloth with multiples, even part of the time, we’d love to hear your stories. We’d love to know how many diapers you bought, how much laundry you did, and how cloth may have been unexpectedly convenient. Please comment on this page or email us if you have some experience that might help other parents.
If you’re lucky, your child will make a seamless transition from full-time diapers to full-time underwear. That said, it’s pretty common for most kids to phase the diapers out gradually: at first they cut down during the day, then they’re “day trained,” and then–sometimes years later (according to my sources)–they stop needing diapers for naps and overnights.
We are in one of these transitional phases now. While my daughter does not need a diaper while she’s awake, she still wears one while she sleeps. I’ve been using cloth diapers since she was born and never want to buy another pack of disposables again, so I’m continuing with cloth diapers even now that I have much less diaper laundry to do. This leaves me with a diaper conundrum:
If I wash my diapers just as frequently as before–that is to say, every three or four days–I’ll be wasting a lot of water and energy on partial loads.
If I wait until I have a full load of diapers, I’ll be letting wet diapers fester in the diaper pail for almost three weeks.
So what is a water conservationist who does not want to smell a three-week-old diaper pail to do? My solution was simple, though it may gross some clean freaks out a bit: I wash a small load of diapers every week. I feel comfortable washing them this infrequently because they are always just wet diapers–no dirty diapers now that she’s day trained. Because I have so few diapers even after a week, I hang them to dry. I could never do this before Audrey became day trained because I couldn’t wait for several days for her diapers to dry on the rack during Oregon’s drizzly months. Now I have so many spare diapers that I can afford to wait.
One day I will no longer need to wash any diapers, but until then, I’ll stick with my once-a-week method. This compromise should please both my inner tree hugger and inner clean freak.
I often hear people say that cloth diapers are no better for the planet than disposables because of all the water used to wash them. This argument has never made too much sense to me. Water is a renewable resource, but the trees cut down to make disposable diapers are often harvested unsustainably. The plastic used on each diaper is a petroleum product-definitely not a renewable resource. Then there’s the whole landfill issue. . . .
Not to say that I don’t care about wasting water. If you wash diapers every other day in a top loader, you’ll use a whopping 7,200 gallons water a year. Do you use a wet pail to soak your diapers? That’s 360 more gallons a year, for a grand total of 7,560. The good news is, it’s not necessary to blow through that much water. I estimate that I use under 1,200 gallons water a year washing diapers. I have a front loader that uses 12.4 gallons per wash, and I wash diapers every four days instead of every other day.
I came up with the brilliant idea of “offsetting” the amount of water I use to wash diapers. The concept is simple: you try to make up for an environmental sin by doing a good deed for the planet. (Disclaimer: I realize that this whole “offsetting” concept is suspect, and we should all be doing the most to conserve resources at all times.) The first step in my personal water offsetting mission is to use as little water as possible on laundry. It would be difficult to offset 7,560 gallons of water a year, but by practicing just a few extra water conservation techniques, I can easily offset the 1,200 gallons I use.
Of course there are dozens of ways to reduce water waste. I was surprised to find that my first two water-saving ideas conserved more than enough water to make up for my diaper-laundry water.
1. Double up your toilet flushes. The average person flushes eight times day. At 1.6 gallons per flush, that equals 12.8 gallons a day. Double up just one flush and you’ll save 584 gallons a year. That’s almost half the amount of water I’d use washing diapers already.
2. Reduce showering time. I am guilty of wasteful showering. The average shower uses 2.5 gallons of water a minute. A ten minute shower uses twenty-five gallons of water. If two adults each take ten-minute showers and reduce them to five-minute showers (or shower every other day), they could save twenty-five gallons a day, or 9,125 gallons a year! Now I’ve more than offset the amount of water used to wash diapers. It’s interesting to note that two adults taking daily 10-minute showers are using fifteen times the amount of water needed to wash a year’s worth of diaper laundry.
Does anyone else feel guilty for washing cloth diapers in water? How do you assuage your guilt? Any crazy water-saving ideas you care to share with us? Please tell!
We love gathering up green parent advice and are already thankful for the tips we got from last week’s post on potty training. This week, we turn to cloth diaper users for their experiential wisdom.
What are your favorite brands/styles of cloth diapers? We’re especially interested in which diapers have provided the least leakage and the best fit, but we’d also like to hear about brands that turned out to be total duds. Thanks for sharing your wisdom!
While here at the Green Baby Guide we approve of garage sale gifts, experience gifts, and even no gifts for your offspring this holiday season, sometimes you do want to buy a little something for the baby in your life. We’ve personally worked with the eco-friendly companies listed below–some of you may have been lucky enough to win one of their great products in our past giveaways.
Pedoodles shoes are green because they’re made from recycled leather remnants. Look for the “eco-friendly” label in the Next Steps Collection. They’re very sturdy with a highly flexible sole and have become our favorite choice for shoes.
Isabooties are a great leather-free bootie for young babies and early walkers. They come in so many darling designs, you’ll want to order every one.
Natural Pod carries wooden toys, organic clothing dyed with natural dyes, and much more. We lust after their all wooden kitchen sets for kids and especially like their lineup of imaginative play toys.
My Little Pakora features a line of organic baby clothes with whimsical animal designs on them. If you’re going to indulge in new, organic baby clothes, these are a great choice.
While most people think of giving eco-friendly diaper cakes for baby showers, what about the holidays? Here’s one decked out in Christmas colors by Grow in Style.
Another great gift idea comes from Monkey Foot Designs: stylish, waterproof wet bags for cloth diapers, swimming suits, or anything else. The small bag costs just $16 and the large $22–an excellent deal for a custom-made bag.
Cozy Bunny sells soft, woolen baby clothes and changing pads.
Also, don’t forget Baby Blend Tees. We’re giving one away right now, so post a comment before Monday and win one for your baby or child.
Happy hunting for holiday swag!
What happens when your daycare refuses to use cloth diapers? You’ve made the costly investment in all the gear, found the most efficient way to wash them, and heartily enjoyed the whole experience…until you have to go back to work and send baby to a sitter.
When we found out that our childcare center wouldn’t use cloth, it became part of our decision to switch. It actually had a policy prohibiting the use of cloth diapers! That daycare wasn’t a particularly good fit for Roscoe anyway, so it wasn’t a difficult choice. But what happens when you find the perfect care center for your child, except for the fact that cloth diapering isn’t accepted?
Rebecca’s daycare provider had never worked with cloth diapers before but was willing to give it a shot. Her sitter sends dirty diapers home in a wet bag and has been happy to find that using cloth diapers with Rebecca’s daughter has cut down on her overall garbage bill.
What has your experience been with cloth diapers at daycare? Have you found that specific types of care providers such as centers or in-home daycares are more willing to use cloth? Are daycare providers more willing to use certain types of cloth diapers like all-in-ones over prefolds? Please share your stories!
In the 2.5 years my daughter wore diapers, we bought just six packs of disposables. I’m sure I could have done better if I’d really set my mind to it. We didn’t deal with the nighttime diaper dilemmas some parents face, so we used cloth at night. We also traveled a lot during those years, and we stuck with cloth diapers for several of those trips. (I know, I know–traveling is not green at all! Read about my personal crisis over traveling here.) Here are some travel tricks that worked for us.
Check out this ode to station wagon living!
Go somewhere with washing machines. Most of our post-baby trips were simple affairs, visiting family or staying in rental houses (rather than hotels) equipped with washers and dryers. If I thought someone might be grossed out by washing my dirty diapers in their machine, I used disposables.
Wash when you return. On short weekend trips, we just lugged the diapers back with us and washed them at home. With my wet bag, this wasn’t a problem.
Get a good wet bag. Joy wrote a post about her Bumkin’s Dirty Duds bag here. I bought a wet back from a sporting goods store, which holds more diapers (about three or four days’ worth). It doesn’t leak or emit odors. I would not recommend traveling with a diaper pail, though I know some have done it.
Use disposables en route, but switch back to cloth once you’re settled. We didn’t tend to do much multiple-destination traveling with the baby, so this worked well. On shorter trips we stuck with cloth the whole way, but if we were traveling all day long, we didn’t want to lug dirty and wet cloth diapers through airport security.
Dry diapers out the car window. Okay, I did not actually try this one–but my grandmother did! She posted a comment on the post comparing cloth to disposables, revealing her cloth diapering secrets from 1952, when she and three kids traveled across the entire country.
As those six packs of disposables show, I did resort to disposables every now and then, so I’m no cloth diapering angel. I always packed disposables on extended plane trips, but others are much braver! Check out Sunrise on the Water’s Thrifty Green Thursday post to see how she survived cloth diapering on a ten-day trip to Hawaii. Let us know your cloth diaper travel tales, tricks, and tips by posting a comment.
5 Dollar Dinners published a recipe for pumpkin chocolate chip waffles. Delicious! (Or, as Audrey would say, “dewishiss.”)
Grow Baby Green is the newest addition to our blogroll. Tara has a lot of helpful articles for new parents. Recent posts include 7 Reasons Why to Stop Using Tap Water to Mix Formula, Massaged Babies Sleep More and Cry Less, and Tips for Eliminating Junk Mail.
Our Home on the Range has a great post about diapers, which includes her reviews of gDiapers, Kissaluvs, bumGenius 3.0, and many other cloth diapers.