Mom and baby are recovering nicely with the support of friends and family. Big sister Franci is still adjusting to her new role and insists on touching her sister’s downy head as often as possible.
We are excited to meet all the challenges that come with a growing family, and I’m sure that Alli will provide plenty of inspiration for blogging!
Parenting books are another source of advice, and you can find one that suits all parenting styles. Sometimes they really speak to you, and sometimes not. I got a kick out of reading sleep books from both ends of the spectrum before Franci was born, since the advice from one completely contradicted advice from the other.
Whether or not I decide to follow the advice, I really don’t get sick of hearing it all. Knowledge is power, after all. And just because I disagree completely, doesn’t mean I didn’t learn anything!
One piece of advice I find myself coming back to over and over is, “Begin as you mean to go.” It means that it’s easier to take a stance now, instead of having to change it down the road. It may take a lot of energy up front that you don’t really have, but you’ll see the pay-off eventually. It goes hand in hand with, “Choose your battles.” Decide what the rules are the moment it becomes an issue, and stick to it. And if you don’t see yourself fighting that war down the road, for whatever reason, don’t half-ass it up front just to give up after a weak show.
What is the best piece of parenting advice you ever received? How about the worst?
Let’s face it: no kid wants to find raisins instead of candy in their Halloween loot. A toothbrush? Come on! Still, not all of us are comfortable with giving out a bunch of junk food to the neighborhood kids. Are there any kid-approved alternatives, candy or otherwise?
I always thought that packs of stickers were a good choice. There might not be a one-size-fits-all sticker, but you can stock up on choices that appeal to separate age groups and genders. Or just get scratch and sniff stickers, since who doesn’t like those? The bonus is that you can save leftovers for next year, like if you get rolls of Halloween stickers.
Crayons and mini activity books are another non-candy alternative. As a parent, I think these are a great choice! Not only are they sugar-free, but they last longer than a jaw-breaker. A handful of little toys is a similar option.
Annie’s Homegrown Organic Bunny Fruit Snacks Variety Pack (24 ct) are a sweet alternative to candy, and contain no artificial flavors, synthetic colors or preservatives.
This 5 Pound Bag YumEarth Organic Lollipops won’t break the bank and will last all night (contains 325 pops). Free of gluten, high fructose corn syrup, and artificial dyes, they are also allergen free AND kosher!
One option I was hoping to include is a fun-sized chocolate bar. I haven’t come across any chocolate choices that are reasonably priced and don’t contain artificial flavors, besides Lindt LINDOR Assorted Chocolate Truffles. I would love to hear your suggestions!
Do you still give out candy or have you switched to other treats for Halloween?
- Hire a green moving company. Depending on your town, you might be able to find a moving company that drops off reusable bins in advance and reuses and recycles packing materials. On the day of the move, the bins are loaded into a biodiesel truck along with your furniture.
- Downgrade your house to something with a smaller footprint (carbon and otherwise). A few years ago, Joy wrote several posts about Choosing a Small Home for Economic and Environmental Reasons, How Much House Does Baby Need? and the Pros and Cons of living in a small house. Depending on your area, you might be able to find a house that already has solar panels, a rainwater catch system or at least a tank-less water heater.
- Reuse boxes and packing material. For most of our boxes and packing material, this move will mark their fifth use. If you count the boxes that came from my parents, it’s double that. I’ve always made it a point to collapse boxes and fold up paper and packing bubbles and find a place to store them. Since we plan to be in our new home for a decade or more, instead of saving boxes I’m going to offer them up on Craig’s List. I often see packing materials up for grabs there and on local FB groups.
- If you are anticipating a move, start saving any boxes that come your way (an easy feat if you are a dedicated online shopper). Some grocery stores offer product boxes to customers instead of bags (Trader Joe’s, for example, has tons of wine boxes), so start bringing your groceries home in boxes. Another great source for boxes that will otherwise be wasted are liquor stores. Call ahead and ask if you can haul some away for your move.
- If you are really dedicated, or very cheap, you can forgo packing paper and bubbles and use linens and clothes to protect breakables. Combining your bedroom and kitchen packing will not only reduce the number of boxes you need overall, but will eliminate the need for disposable packing materials.
- Populate your new house with house plants. It’s surprisingly easy to make new plants by taking cuttings off your current plants, friends’ plants or plants you see while walking around town (respectfully, or course). Almost any container can be turned into a pot, and drainage can be added to any ceramic vessel with the correct drill bit.
What are your favorite tips for a greener move?
It all started in the laundry room. She was so interested in what I was doing and wanted to help put clothes in the washer with me. A-ha! It only took a try or two for her to follow my lead as to when the clothes are going in, and when they are coming out. Now whenever it’s time to put clothes in (or take them out) of the washer or dryer, I let her help. I guess you could say laundry was Franci’s first chore.
Bolstered by our success, I decided to see if she was ready to pick up toys at the end of the night. She caught on very quickly and it has become part of her bedroom routine. I have to direct her work (think, “go get that yellow book under the chair and put it right here on the shelf”) but it saves me from crawling around on the floor myself.
I haven’t tried any other chores at this point, because I’m not really sure if there are any others she is ready for. I hope I remember to introduce new ones as she becomes more able!
How old are your kids and what are their daily chores?
I have been meaning to update our Blogroll for months and months, and I’ve finally done it! The eminent arrival of baby number two in 69 days has spurred me to get through as much of my to-do list as I can, and connecting with other green parenting bloggers is at the top of that list.
You can find a list of these “Blogs We like” at the bottom of the righthand colum. I encourage you to check them out and like them on Facebook! If you have any suggestions for green parenting websites, please leave me a comment so I can add them to the list. If there are any blogs I’ve listed but you think deserve a little extra attention, please leave a comment!
And if you know of any good Blog Carnivals, please let me know!