Two decades ago, when Rebecca and I were frugal college friends, we experienced a rare snowstorm. Thrilled to be able to enjoy the change of season, but too cheap to buy a large plastic disk we’d never use again, we went to a thrift store and bought two vinyl garment bags. While it seemed like sheer genius (we’d just unzip the zipper, tuck our legs inside, and fly down the hill!), it actually was a total flop.
Still, I love the idea of creative sledding and have seen many solutions while perched at the top of a nearby hill on a snowy day. They all involved recycling something that people already had in their garages.
Of course, you could just pick up a used sled from a local thrift store, but if you have just one or two days of snow per year like we do in the Pacific Northwest, I’m not sure it’s worth storing it. I also happen to love the adventure of repurposing something and laughing hysterically when it doesn’t work out–which is what Rebecca and I did twenty years ago!
Valentine’s Day means chocolate, romance, and roses. Wait. That was before parenting! Now it involves sleeplessness, breastfeeding, spit up, and cloth diaper changes. Today I’m thinking of all of you with sincere endearment as you bravely slog your way through the challenges of early parenting.
Although those exhilarating and exhausting first months as a mother aren’t exactly romantic, they are infused with a love like no other. You may not be treated to a violin serenade, but you will get gooey kisses, cuddles, and toothless grins. If you are lucky enough to squeeze in a date or even a truffle, kudos to you! You deserve every bit of love sent in your direction today.
On this green hued holiday, the best gifts won’t come in boxes or cellophane. The divine offerings of free babysitting, the opportunity to nap, and maybe even the chance to sit in a hot tub for ten minutes are ultimately the most thoughtful. If none of those things happen today, I hope you can be grateful to join this wonderful and difficult profession of motherhood. Caress your babe’s silky cheek, smell the top of her head, and savor the moments that will fly by in a haze. Now that my babies are four and nearly two, I miss those early, oxytocin-infused days. Enjoy!
We love Celebrate Green, a website (and book) written by a mother-daughter team who bring eco-friendly values to every holiday. Read their Valentine’s Day Post if you’re looking for a last minute idea for your child. Here’s a hint: make your chocolate gifts more about quality than quantity.
Here at Greenbabyguide.com, we’re celebrating our fourth Valentine’s Day and we have a wealth of vintage posts to help you celebrate love with a green tinge. DIY Paper Heart Valentines are simple and lovely and our Eco-friendly Valentine Baby Gift Ideas would be great picks for any tiny bundle of love.
If you’re short on time, consider Last Minute Homemade Valentine’s Day Cards for your preschooler’s class. Those who are willing to have fun making a huge mess will enjoy having baby make Potato Print Valentines.
Indulge your sweet tooth by making Nutritious Valentine’s Day Brownies or try mixing some of your homemade sweet potato purees into some Baby Food Brownies. (Don’t worry! They’re for you, not the baby.)
Best of all, celebrate your relationship by planning a Simple, Frugal Valentine’s Day Date. Are you too exhausted for any romantic effort? You’re not alone! We know how it is to have Valentine’s Day with A New Baby. On one hand having a newborn is sheer bliss. On the other hand, conflict and exhaustion. (And those two states can shift back and forth on an hourly basis.)
Wherever you are in your parenting journey, I wish you rest. (And maybe a bit of chocolate.) Do you have any plans this Valentine’s Day?
These Valentines are more interesting than a heart-shaped box of waxy chocolates–and they’re better for the planet, too.
Greenfire 3 Pack Lavender Sandalwood Vanilla All Natural Massage Oil Candles, fragranced with essential oils
The tins are even recyclable!
These bookmark valentines are perfect for a child’s whole class.
Organic tea-infused chocolate!
What could be eco-friendlier—or more romantic—than some organic Valentine lettuce?
Come back later this week for some DIY Valentine gift ideas!
Blast from the past! This was our very first post on the Green Baby Guide. It ran almost three years ago today!
What would Christmas morning be without festive wrapping paper and fancy bows? (“It’s about peace and love and the birth of our Savior!” you answer.) Okay, but stick with me here. I’m talking about every kid’s much-awaited vision of Christmas morning. Will my daughter grow up deprived if I deny her the tearing-up-the-gift-wrap experience that is every American child’s birthright? Oh, she’ll have Christmas gifts aplenty—but this year, I’ve devised some eco-friendly alternatives to disposable gift wrap. If I start this practice before she’s speaking in full sentences, it should be easy, and she’ll never know what she’s missing.
Joy’s mom was way ahead of the gift wrap revolution when she sewed a set of fabric gift bags in the early 1980s. Family names are ironed onto bags, some are just decorated with quilted fabric, and all of them have a fabric ribbon sewn into the seam for quick “wrapping.” They use them for all holidays and especially enjoy seeing the familiar ones year after year. Those bags have saved reams of wrapping paper, hundreds of dollars, and hours of time in their nearly thirty-year lifespan. Last year Joy’s favorite gift was a set of her own gift bags to be used for her family’s holidays for many seasons to come. If you would like to invest in bags that will last you for years, check out http://luckycrow.com. They have several beautiful fabrics and sell some of their designs in organic fabrics.
As for me, I didn’t have any special gift bags to use this year. Piles of used ribbon, fancy gift boxes, gift bags, fabric, and Christmas tins multiply down in the depths of my basement. I try not to hoard things. I even like to think of myself as somewhat of a minimalist. But somehow, it happens. “Maybe I’ll reuse them one day,” I think to myself. Well, that day has come! Just look at what I accomplished with my handy reusing skills:
Some of those presents are for my mom, stepfather, and sister. On Christmas day they will have the very enticing option of keeping their decorative tin, bag, or box or leaving it behind to be relegated to another year in my basement. If they choose the latter option, they may very well find another Christmas present inside it next year. Despite the beautiful presentation, I’m sure my daughter will still tear into her presents. Most likely she’ll be happier placing the boxes on her head than she will be with what is inside.
If you’re in a last minute panic and can’t imagine lugging your children through crowded shops, our vintage posts can save the day!
These fast and easy gingerbread cookies taste great and handle beautifully. Although people always seem to be impressed by the mysterious qualities of gingerbread, you’ll have a batch whipped up in no time flat. (There’s no refrigeration required.)
You can involve your children with making DIY: salt dough ornaments. You can also use the dough for their little handprints if you want a great gift idea for grandparents.
Simple homemade play-dough is a great stocking stuffer or holiday craft to keep your kids busy while you tuck presents under the tree.
If you have a big chunk of unexpected time, you can whip up some DIY fabric holiday gift bags. Give a set away as a gift or make one for your own crew. We’ve used the set my mother made for our family nearly four decades and I now have a set of my own. It makes wrapping presents incredibly easy and eliminates those scrapes of wrapping paper that litter your floor after those gifts have been opened.
What are you doing in the next week? Are you taking any steps (even small ones) to make your holiday green this year?
Joy went over our top holiday crafts for kids a couple weeks ago. That post contains classics like how to make a proper paper snowflake and homemade baked Christmas ornaments. Yesterday Audrey and I spent a couple hours decorating construction paper trees and gingerbread men—a highly recommended activity for the preschool set. We also gathered branches and leaves and tied them onto a paper plate ring to make a simple wreath. Even really young children could enjoy gathering the supplies for that one, though I suppose if you live in a snow-encrusted area, that might prove difficult.
What are your favorite holiday crafts?
Wooden play kitchens have gone mainstream! Just a few years ago, I couldn’t find a wood child’s play kitchen for under $250. (I’ll admit I didn’t look too hard after my initial search proved so disappointing.) So what did I do? I picked up something similar to this Alex Toys In My Kitchen Set at a consignment shop for $12, tricked it out with some IKEA pots and pans, and voila! I had an inexpensive little play kitchen for my child. (Here’s the original post I wrote about this slap-dash effort at creating an affordable wooden play kitchen.)
This year I looked around and found several darling wooden kitchens, many of which were under or around $100!
Alex Toys in My Kitchen Set $53.85
Maxim Wooden Kitchen Center $98.98
Educo My Creative Cookery Club $104.64
Kidkraft Suite Elite Kitchen $109.99
KidKraft Silver Retro Kitchen $169.99
Does your child play with any of these wooden kitchens? How do they hold up in real life?
Looking for more wooden gift ideas? Check out last year’s post: wooden toys for babies and youngsters.
Pregnant women need pampering. Why? Because when their feet are massaged, when their tongues are bathed in dark chocolate, and when they are immersed in honey bubble bath, their babies are enjoying an atmosphere of relaxation and contentment as well. Those bambinos will be getting piles of presents in the months to come, but new and expectant moms deserve some special thought as well.
After trolling the Internet for the perfect gifts (and remembering my own pregnancy cravings), here’s what I came up with:
The Microwaveable Flax Seed Filled Neck Pillow or Momma Earth Herbals Aromatherapy Packs are perfect solutions for driving away winter chill while luxuriating in relaxation. (Please consider a few free foot massage coupons to accompany these lovely gifts!)
No matter what strange cravings your pregnant pal may have, chocolate is always a good bet. Endangered Species Rainforest has a line of chocolates that sound smooth and lovely–and they’re eco-friendly! If you want to make a bit more of an investment in the hard core European stuff, splurge on a box of Leonidas Belgian Chocolates.
Deep Steep Organic Honey Bubble Bath blends the scents of grapefruit and bergamont with thick, abundant bubbles. Afterwards, she can slather herself with Earth Mama Body Butter just to soften that skin and prepare her for a relaxing snooze.
Most of us spend the first few days or even weeks after baby’s birth in pajamas. Aimee Bra-less nightgowns have gotten rave reviews and make a nice transition between maternity and early motherhood. Belabumbum also has some lovely empire waist nightgowns that are specifically designed for maternity and nursing. If she loves flannel comfort, go for the basic Frankie and Johnny Pajamas, Sleepyheads, or Nick and Nora sets in larger sizes that will accommodate a post-pregnancy shape.
I would have LOVED any of these gifts in the tired last stretch of my pregnancy, but I also would have enjoyed restaurant gift cards or meal deliveries. Now that I have made it through two pregnancies, I am passionate about supporting women as they transition from pregnancy to motherhood. What do you do for pregnant friends? What were some of your favorite gifts as an expectant parent?
Congratulations to the winner of our Sealy Naturalis Crib Mattress with Organic Cotton giveaway! Catherine Alley will soon be receiving a very large package in the mail thanks to Kolcraft, our giveaway sponsor. We hope your baby enjoys the unexpected holiday gift Catherine!
You may have savings on hand for heirloom green gifts, but if money is tight this year, consider some creative thrift store gifts that any child would love. (They’ll be just as cherished and even more eco-friendly!)
The whole thrift store gift idea may seem downright depressing to you if you’ve never cruised through your local secondhand shop. But used gifts offer an opportunity to give something that’s more personalized, less expensive and greener than just about any other option. Plus, you’ll be able to purchase more on a limited budget. Have you braved the aisles of your local thrift shop lately?