On Thursday I re-ran my vintage post about a car-free living with a baby. So what’s life like over two years later?
I never thought I’d be one of those parents wheeling a four-year-old around in a stroller. In fact, I scoffed at parents who didn’t make their kids walk, instead opting to push them all over town like little princes and princesses. Why, I practically joined the track team by the age of two! My nephews escorted my father for three-mile hikes when they were still in diapers!

Fast forward to 2010. My daughter is four and a half and can’t walk more than half a block at a snail’s pace before stopping dead in her tracks and begging to be carried. I’ve tried leaving the stroller behind on errands, only to resort to carrying her thirty-pound body hither and yon. She simply won’t walk—she’ll stand in place, sit on the sidewalk, and moan and groan.
For now, I am going to continue using the stroller. I really couldn’t get anything done without it. (As a side note, the fact that I’ve walked this stroller at least a mile a day for the last 4.5 years is a great endorsement for the Maclaren Triumph!) If I had a car, it might be different, but until Audrey can walk at least two miles without complaint, I guess I’ll have to resign myself to being one of “those” parents. I’m just hoping I don’t have to wheel her to into kindergarten next year. . . .
Do any of you have “advanced stroller riders”? Or do you have any tips for making a reluctant walker get moving?
Posted by rebecca on August 24th, 2010 in
Baby Gear, Family Life, Product Reviews |
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In a recent post many readers commented that their biggest shock with cloth diapers was the bulkiness. Since almost all baby clothes are designed for disposable clad bottoms, it can be sad to see some new baby garments go unused because of baby’s huge diaper bum.
Still, if you keep these tips in mind while buying those adorable little ensembles, your baby can pull off the bulky diaper bottom without a hitch!
1. For girls: Skirts and dresses are tremendously forgiving when it comes to sizable diapers. In the winter, you can use Babylegs instead of tights and keep those dresses on, but if she needs more warmth, or freedom to crawl, buy pants in sizes six months bigger than her age. Then roll up the pant legs and enjoy! Note from Rebecca: For her skinny daughter, Audrey, pants were always too short, even with the huge diaper! In fact, Audrey has not been able to wear pants for 2 years, since she potty trained. She fits in size 24 month pants, but then they’d go up to her knees…. Still, for “thicker” babies, like my daughter, Jovi, buying bigger and rolling up the bottoms works just great.
2. For boys: Overalls handily accommodate cloth diaper bulk. Buy them in bigger sizes and they’ll also be able to be rolled up. With my son, we bought larger sizes from the time that he reached about one year of age. Then a year later, when he was potty trained and wearing just underwear, he still fit in the same clothes! It actually saved us money to have used cloth because we were able to stretch his wardrobe out for a full year.
3. For everyone: Buy larger onesies or footie pajamas. Or skip the onesies and just buy shirts without the snaps at the crotch so that you don’t have to worry about whether they’ll fit baby’s bottom half. You can also buy extenders to make the onesies fit over bulky diapers.
Other ideas? Have you had trouble with your child’s diaper clad bum in regular sized clothing? What were your solutions?
Posted by joy on August 23rd, 2010 in
Baby Care, Baby Gear, Diapers, Family Life, General, In the News, Living Simply, The Green Household |
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This post is a part of the illuminating “Why don’t you” series. No judgment! We’re just curious.
This is a subject close to Joy’s heart. She’s written about it several times on the Green Baby Guide, and we devoted a section to it in The Eco-nomical Baby Guide. Readers have offered commiseration, tips, and product recommendations, but nothing helped contain the leaks or prevent yeast infections.

I, on the other hand, simply used two prefolds inside a larger diaper cover at night and never had any problems at all.
But what about you other cloth diapering parents—do you use disposables at night? Why?
Posted by rebecca on August 20th, 2010 in
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I originally ran this post over two years ago. Stay tuned for an update next week. What’s carfree life like with a four-year-old? You may be surprised. . . .
I’ve managed to go my whole adult life without owning a car. When I was pregnant, I wondered if I’d finally succumb to automobile ownership, but I’ve found I get along just fine. In the first few weeks of parenthood, I plopped my daughter into a sling and stepped out the door.

Audrey's very first stroller ride
At three months, she took her very first stroller ride, and at almost two and a half years she still takes a spin in it almost every single day. I have found the stroller indispensible for a car-free lifestyle–jaunts around town are entertaining for the baby, and the basket provides some storage space for books or groceries we pick up along the way. We enjoy what I like to think of as a European way of life: Instead of driving to the store every week or every other week and filling up an entire cart full of groceries, I stop by every few days and pick up the items I need by foot.
My husband does have a car, but I have only driven it once, and that was to take him to the emergency room (long story). He does commute to work by car, and I have to admit that I rely on his chauffeur services to run to the store for particularly heavy or unwieldy items. Yes, I am grateful that I don’t need to walk down the streets with a 24-pack of Seventh Generation toilet paper or a ten-pound bag of flour!
In many ways I’ve had to revolve my life around not driving. It’s no coincidence that we live within walking distance of shops, libraries, restaurants, and coffee shops. It can definitely be inconvenient to rely on walking or bus-riding, especially with a fussy baby. A few times a year the weather is bad enough to keep me stuck indoors all day long. Also, my hour-long bus commute to work would take a mere twenty minutes by car. This may seem like a waste of time, but I use the bus ride to read or grade papers.
Despite the inconveniences and drawbacks, I love remaining car-free. I hate driving and am thrilled to live a life that doesn’t require getting behind the wheel. We save thousands of dollars by not buying a second car, not to mention all the time and money we save on gas and maintenance. My husband’s commute by car is terrible for the environment, and I rely on the bus to get to work two to four times a week, so we can’t claim to be carbon-neutral. However, we are able to cut back on our combined carbon emissions by running most household errands on foot. On those bad days when I’m standing in the rain with my toddler in one arm and a bag of groceries in the other, at least I have the solace of knowing I’m doing the planet a small favor!
Posted by rebecca on August 19th, 2010 in
Family Life, Living Simply |
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Have pureed yams forever ruined your baby’s pinstriped pajamas? No worries! With a little persistence, ingenuity, (and possibly vinegar) the garment might just be restored to its original brilliance.
Of course with all of the below stains, the best option is to quickly wet and pre-treat the item so that the stain doesn’t have a chance to dry. If it is dried without your knowing, you can still give the following remedies a try!
Try these simple tricks for specific stains:
- Berries: Boil water, stretch the garment tight over a pan, exposing the stain. Then pour the very hot water down over the stain. If that doesn’t work try mixing vinegar and toothpaste to remove the stain.
- Blood: First soak the clothing in cold salt water and then rub with detergent. If that doesn’t work try applying dish soap, letting it sit for a bit, rinsing thoroughly and letting it dry in the sun.
- Feces: Wash and then let the stain be naturally bleached out by sunlight. If that doesn’t do the trick, try Nature’s Miracle Stain Remover. There’s no need to use bleach with cloth diapers!
- Grass: First work in some rubbing alcohol and then allow it to dry. Afterwards treat it with detergent and rinse with cold water. If none of those things work, try Bac-Out or Nature’s Miracle Stain Remover.
- Mustard: Mix rubbing alcohol with dish soap and rub into the stain.
- Tomato Sauce: Rub dish soap or dishwasher detergent into the stain and then run cold ice over the stain. Repeat multiple times until the stain works itself out. (I have to share that I managed to cover myself in spaghetti sauce at a lovely restaurant while dining without my children. After many applications of dish soap and ice, the stains came out completely even though they were dried into my clothes.)
What are your favorite stain removal tricks? Do you have any recipes for a homemade stain pre-treatment? Are there stain removal victories you’d like to share?
Posted by joy on August 18th, 2010 in
Baby Care, Baby Food, Diapers, Eco-friendly Laundry, Eco-recipes, Family Life, Living Simply, Product Reviews, The Green Household |
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Nothing beats the sight of clean laundry flapping in the breeze. If you have a nice, sunny spot in the yard, why not dedicate it to a solar clothes dryer—i.e., a clothesline? Of course you can rig something up with a simple piece of rope, but if you’re feeling fancy, these products will allow you to make the most of your space.
Household Essentials MD-61 Five-Line Indoor/Outdoor Mini Retractable Clothes Dryer (just $11.99!)

67 ¾ feet drying space
Household Essentials Five-Line Indoor/Outdoor Retractable Clothes Dryer ($48)

170 feet of drying space!
Household Essentials 1600 12-Line Outdoor Umbrella-Style Clothes Dryer with Aluminum Arms ($40)

165 feet drying space
Household Essentials 4000 30-Line Outdoor Parallel-Style Clothes Dryer with Steel Arms ($72)

210 feet drying space
Household Essentials H-150 30-Line Outdoor Parallel-Style Clothes Dryer with Steel Arms ($54)

182 feet drying space
Do you have an outdoor drying system? I’ve admitted elsewhere on the Green Baby Guide that I’ve all but given up on outdoor drying due to earwigs. I wonder if one of these racks would solve that pesky problem? Let us know what works for you!
Posted by rebecca on August 17th, 2010 in
Eco-friendly Laundry |
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Perhaps your tot delicately handles a spoon and carefully feeds herself without incident. More likely, she flings food upon herself, onlookers, and any furniture in the surrounding area.
Between the feedings, the occasional blowouts, and playtime, stains can creep into clothing on a daily basis. Often in the hectic pace of laundry, those garments get washed and dried, setting the stains and ruining the clothes. Ugh! The angst of seeing that large brown blotch on your baby’s favorite sundress or the huge grass stains on his beloved khaki shorts.
So how can you prevent such a fate from befalling your baby’s wardrobe? Line dry her clothing! It will also prevent shrinking, save you money on utilities, and lower your carbon footprint.
In addition, be sure to keep a stain pre-treater right next to the laundry basket. There are wonderful green options such as Bi-O-Kleen’s Bac-Out, a Stain and Odor Eliminator—which also happens to be great as a cleaning booster for laundering diapers. Ecover Stain Remover is an easy option as is Nature’s Miracle Stain Remover.
Of course, there are several natural ways to get stains out of clothes once they seem to be set in. Stay tuned for some great homemade remedies in the next post!
Posted by joy on August 16th, 2010 in
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If–due to some natural disaster or some sort of post-apocalyptic situation–I’m ever forced to live off the land, I’m not sure I’d survive. Sure, I’ve messed around with gardening. Last year I had a bumper crop of tomatoes! But can a family of three survive on tomatoes alone? Probably not.

What about you? Do you grow your own food? Do you dream of growing all your own food?
Posted by rebecca on August 13th, 2010 in
The Friday Question |
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I’ve never lived somewhere with air conditioning. That’s not exactly eco-boasting, as I’ve also never lived somewhere with unbearable humidity. Here in Portland, the thermostat soars past 100 degrees almost every summer, but I’m able to keep things cool—or at least stave off heat stroke—using some passive cooling techniques. Last summer my indoor temperatures reached 93 degrees, which was a bit uncomfortable, but I lived to tell about it. The worst part was having to stay indoors, as it was hotter outside than in!

This summer on the east coast, they’ve been suffering through record-breaking highs. This NY Times article highlights some of the ways city folk have battled the heat wave—such as wearing “dirt-colored clothing” to avoid doing laundry in a sweltering basement.
If you don’t have air conditioning, the planet thanks you. But how are you coping without the canned air? And how do you keep baby cool when even the nights don’t bring in a cool breeze? Here are our not-very-original tips for keeping baby cool in the hot sun. What are yours?
Posted by rebecca on August 12th, 2010 in
The Green Household |
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Interest rates are great, house prices are low, and the market is packed with great deals. So how can you find a cost-friendly, eco-friendly home without breaking the bank?
Consider purchasing a home with an attached apartment. I know this may not seem green or cost effective, but it is both!
If you keep your square footage relatively low, the attached apartment will improve the urban density in your home. A huge portion of your carbon footprint is just the square footage you occupy in your living space. Here’s an example: Our home is about 1,000 square feet with an additional 300+ square feet in a studio apartment. Since we add another person to our living space with that apartment, each of the five people living on the property occupies less than three hundred square feet apiece. That’s not bad considering that the average family of four lives in a home over 2,000 square feet.
In addition, the apartment rental price generates more than half of our monthly mortgage payment. In fact, we have never in all of our lives, paid so little for housing, even during our years in a tiny five hundred square foot university apartment.
We also get tax benefits which help us write off the depreciation of the rental unit, making the rental income come with a very small tax burden.
Does this sound super fantastic, but a little scary when you think about becoming a landlord? The great news is that several communities have a rental owner association that can help get you started with forms and workshops. It’s really quite worth the trouble.
In our case, we remodeled a very strange three hundred square foot addition that wasn’t complete when we moved in. In the last six years the apartment has paid back all the remodeling costs and now generates income. Between tenants we sometimes keep the rental open in the summer to use as a guest house for visiting family members.
Another thing to think about is that as our fixed mortgage eventually gets paid off, rents can keep going up. Theoretically we could stay in our house until we pay off the mortgage, and then charge whatever the going rental rates are. In 20 years we would be making money instead of spending money on living expenses. So even though our house is very small and we all share one bathroom, I am grateful that it is so very eco-nomical!
Posted by joy on August 11th, 2010 in
Family Life, General, Living Simply, The Green Household |
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